The Empowered Ladies of the Lifestyle is a Kasidie community that strives to support the fabulous women and fantastic men who make lifestyle decisions through the lens of an active and empowered female. Given the historic tradition of empowered females in the lifestyle, we knew that our group mission and values would be consistent with the beliefs of many lifestyle participants. We have been overjoyed by how many people have embraced our group and joined hands together.
Inclusive Vision: Members of both genders are welcome and encouraged to consider the benefits of female leadership in the lifestyle; both for online communications, for group events, and for the bedroom. In a recent Kasidie forum survey, many couples reported that the female partner was "running the lifestyle train" in their world. Our group vision does not imply that the female must be dominant or any other oversimplified stereotypes. Given the reality that many couples share the decision load, we strive to support ALL couples who feature engaged female decision makers and include everyone who embraces our cause. In addition, we welcome and value the viewpoints of single females; our strong sisters who provide unique perspectives and deserve our appreciative support.
Is this group part of the Girls Uncorked network?
We have the highest respect level for the Girls Uncorked groups that have developed throughout the country. We do share many of the same core values: women supporting one another, female empowerment, respectful networking, etc. While the 2 groups do share many common members, we also have key distinctions: The Girls Uncorked tradition has regional groupings that emphasize regular support meetings among the female members. There is a wonderful intimacy that develops for Uncorked members as relationships form through these local gatherings. In contrast, the Empowered Ladies of the Lifestyle community is one large group with no regional distinctions. The support elements are intended to be through online communications and networking reinforced by wonderfully inclusive and engaging events.
What are the goals for Empowered Ladies events?
In addition to our online communications, we also love to meet-up and have fun together!! Our events are intended to allow members to meet in person for playful adventures that are fun, respectful and sexy... Our ongoing gatherings at PlayhouseLV and Sea Mountain Inn are examples of such events. We essentially create a "party within the party" for members to attend events with a built-in set of like-minded acquaintances who want to become friends. We simply coordinate the gathering of members who feel open and motivated to meet new friends.
Our group members are unusually warm and open (we don't like "cliques") and the large size of the network guarantees that all of us are in the same boat: meeting new friends we've never met in person before. So people don't have to attempt to integrate themselves into a pre-formed group of close friends. Instead, members can arrive knowing that most people in the group, don't know most people in the group (yet). Once we are together, our "meet ups" are flexible, no pressure, and folks "go with the flow." It is truly that simple! Our success derives from the inclusive, fun and sexy mindset that members bring to each event.
Is there a role for solo males in the Empowered Ladies community?
Yes. Many of the women and couples in our group enjoy engaging with exceptional solo males. First, our group welcomes everyone in the lifestyle community who is respectful and thoughtful. In addition, there are so many empowered women who enjoy MFM play and other variations such as the Hotwife tradition. The key is all these variations is that the females are at the center of the decision making process, exploring their sexual liberation as the directors and co-directors of the fun, NOT as the "pawns" being told what to do. The wide range of the various options are exciting and fulfilling. One popular party format features solo males prominently because we create a 2 to 1 ratio of males to females, so that each lady has an opportunity to direct her own fantasy with multiple men. At PlayhouseLV (our partners in Vegas) they call this the "Greedy Girls" night. We call it the Empowered Ladies night because each woman is firmly in charge of her experience with the guys playing the fun roles of satisfying each lady.