My name is Sex Kitten and I am 27 years old. I live and work in Manhattan, and party here too! I started writing my blog, Swing in the City, as a memoir of all the wild fun my partner, Rocco, and I have had since we started out in the "lifestyle." Being in the lifestyle has brought our relationship to a whole new level. Since there are no issues of jealousy or fear of cheating, we can both be completely honest with each other. The simple truth is that most people will be attracted to those other than their significant others. It's OK to embrace that and be honest about it! Rocco and I love each other more than anything, but we've also managed to come to a point where we can distinguish making love and having sex... and we are totally comfortable having sex with other people. We always play together and most often engage in "partner swapping" with other couples.

Rocco and I have visited clubs all around the world and have had some amazing experiences. Unfortunately, every time we went to a swingers party/club in NYC, we were totally disappointed by the venue and crowds. We had seen so many great parties throughout the world, so why wasn't there a good one in the greatest city in the world? So I began throwing parties.  I was on a mission to find other couples and ladies like me and throw the hottest erotic events that New York City had ever seen!

Although we wanted to create a venue similar to the hottest sex clubs in Paris, we also wanted to make our parties approachable to the new couples and single women interested in exploring the scene. We remembered our journey -- we had no help, no guidance, and no support. We had to learn things the hard way, and it took us years to figure things out. Since we were sensitive to the issues and questions beginners have, we started the School of Sex. We understand that not everyone is willing to dive in head first onto their first swingers party/experience as we were (and yes, all the stories you read on my blog are true). Therefore, we developed a program geared towards beginners called Swing School. We offer an introductory, informal session of Swing School during the first hour of all our parties. The moment you walk into our parties, seminars, workshops, etc., you will feel a sense of warmth and comfort. I am a woman and I know the last thing that other young, attractive women and couples want to walk into is a dirty, skeevy joint with nasty people! We are the only organic erotic event run by a *real* couple in the lifestyle in the entire city.


If you would like to view some of my favorite blog posts, here they are in no particular order:

My night with porn star Lexington Steele
Penthouse pimpin'
Triple stranded pearl necklace
St. Patty's Get Lucky party
Kitten eater-Danielle
Monday Night Foursome
Southern Hospitality
Largest XXX Theater in North America
Private List-It Keeps Getting Better
The (Former) Biggest Dick in the World

I wanted to thank Time Out NY for choosing School of Sex's Behind Closed Doors as one of the best swingers clubs in NYC. We were also rated a "Top Party to Hook Up". TONY exclusively used pictures from our parties and locations, as seen below, in their Sex Issue.

So if you're looking for the best place to meet hot, young couples and single ladies at the most upscale venues in the city... come to a Behind Closed Doors event!