What we are all about 

LifeIcing events was created primarily through our experience with traditional Lifestyle house parties or on-premises swing clubs. Although we have the greatest respect for the owners and managers of those venues, we found that there weren't the best fit for us and many of our fellow Lifestyle couples.

Our Lifestyle events are designed to provide a low pressure environment where Lifestyle couples and singles can meet in a neutral venue. Our events allow attendees to meet new Lifestyle couples and visit old friends,  flirt, test sensual chemistry and take things further when a match is made.  There is never pressure to play or do anything else that doesn't come naturally.

We are not a swing club

Although our events are primarily attended by swingers and lifestyle couples, they are not swing parties or swing clubs. LifeIcing events are Lifestyle Mixers typically held in and around San Diego in a local bar or lounge. Most of our events are not total takeovers which means that we often share the venue with "vanilla" couples or singles. 

Although there may be a lot of sensual touch, kissing, flirting and general sensuality there is NO ON-PREMISES PLAY. Unlike a swing club or private swing party, our lifestyle mixers will require you to get a hotel room or take play back to your home. Play is private at our events. Our goal again is classy, sexy and discrete.

Our Job is to bring a great group of sensual Lifestyle couples and  sensual singles together in one location, the rest is up to you.